
Spending time in Chicago enjoying good company is always needed. Friendships are a beautiful gift and I had a great time with some of them in Chicago.
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Besides enjoying a great meal and catching up on life, the Chicago skyline was also an added bonus.
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It's crazy to realize how life happens and sends us wherever God may need us. That means sometimes it moves us away from those we love. That can be good and bring us new people to meet or it may make it harder.
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As human as we are, I realize our heart longs for humanity and contact with others. Our senses come alive when others we love are around. And, while I may not have the answer to making new friends, except that luckily there are about 6 billion humans in the world--making it a little easier to find them, I can say that when I pray for my friends at Mass, during my morning routine, or even when I look at pictures or bring back our memories, it is at that moment that my senses also come alive with those who have touched my life in one way or another.
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It also makes me smile that my friends challenge me to be a better person. They know me and want what is best for me. Unlike family, my friends have chosen to spend of their life with me. With friends there are good times, and with really good friends there are some bad times too. I guess the bad times are a good thing because that's when you know friends have become family.
During those times, when I revel in the wonders of my heart, I am assuaged knowing that though we may be physically apart from each other, by the graces of God himself, He has put us in eachothers' lives and if we have friendship here on Earth, it will be even more kickass in heaven--no more time and distance constraints!
Through the Saints I'm also meeting more saintly friends and catching up with old ones. Spending needed time with my friends reminded me of that.
I just bought a book on St. Anthony of Padua that includes daily prayers. He is my confirmation Saint and because we haven't chatted in a while , I would like to catch up and see what the Holy Rascal has been up to. He's told me before, but I haven't made time to really listen.
As I started writing this, I found a few inspiring quotes on frienship that I enjoyed:
"Friendship is unnecessary, like philosophy, like art... It has no survival value; rather is one of those things that give value to survival."
- C. S. Lewis
"Friends are friends forever, if the Lord is the Lord of them
And a friend will not say never,
'cause the welcome will not end
Though it's hard to let you go
In the Father's hands I know
That a lifetime's not too long... to live as friends."
-Michael W Smith
Photo Above: The chair was at the Chicago train station and, as a member of the Booze Crew, I could not resist taking the picture. I actually had no one to take it and went up to a total stranger to see if he would take it. He was walking through the station with a fishing pole. He was happy to take it and we established a frienship; even chuckling at this massive chair in the middle of the station.